SOLELY LIFE
I am so pleased to have you today, I will like to discuss about Solely Life.
One way or the other we've all heard about Sole Business, Sole Proprietorship, One Man Business etc. In a nutshell it means engaging in a business alone; without partnering with whosoever individual or group that develop interest in contributing to the business either by Capital, Labour, Land or Entrepreneurship.
All the way that is business, I want to talk about how we live our life; as a man or woman, so far you have the total control of your life and also determines your income you are qualified to use a preferable life that suits your style.
It is not a sin or bad thing to live a quiet life (solely life) but not to the extent of living without considering accommodating neighbors and relatives. Some people are very hostile to their family, not to talk of those people around them. This will attract most of their family members to even distance themselves from such person mainly because of their personality and the manner of their thinking.
Being a policy fellow is good because people will respect your decisions, likewise respecting your integrity.
But have you ever ask yourself these questions?
- What do people think about me?
- What impact do I have on the younger ones?
- Am I building a better reputation for my Children or Wards?
- What are the likely consequences?
What do people think about me?
Most people that cultivate or portray this personality do not always think of what thoughts people might have on their lifestyle, instead they always think that; they have achieve their aims and objectives by making people and families alike be wary of them, they want people to fear them and worship them as god. They always feel achieved if all these are happening but this will now leads to the next question.
What impact do I have on the younger ones?
As a parent or a citizen in any giving entity (society), one way or the other you are impacting knowledge on the younger ones. They might be freaking and wary of you because of your impetus behavior but believe me they are learning likewise feeling how it is (being hostile), some might emulate the behavior because they don't have choice and that they have lived all their lives under your care so that makes them to believe that there is no life aside the one they have been brought up with.
As a result of your personality, you have impacted something vital to their lives, and anytime they realize that there is a life aside the one they have been brought up with (the one you have impacted on them) and they feel that it is more acceptable and convenient, believe me or not they will be gutted (disappointed) in you.
Am I building a better reputation for my Children or Wards?
The answer to this question is very straight forward, as a sole bearer of your personality, you will be the one to enjoy your reputation. You will be respected and enjoy the honours, in fact more than the kings and queens but believe me it not transferable. Once you are alive your children will enjoy your reputation, the dignity giving to you will also be of benefit to your children.
But after a fruitful years on earth and the sole bearer leaves this world, the children will now start reaping the fruit of their parents labour. The respect, dignity, honour, preservation etc. giving to them when their parent was alive will now be withdrawn and be replaced with several languishes because those honours were achieved through means of uncertainty and forced.
What are the likely consequences?
Likely consequences are not too strange as many of them has been explained above. One adage says that What you sow you shall reap. This makes me remember a woman who lived a christian life and unfortunately she was so cruel to her children and relatives alike.
She lived alone a big mansion, she is always indoor whenever she have nowhere to go. On this faithful day she came back from one of her church program, the program includes fasting and prayer so she performed that and when she got home, she decided to rest a bit before taking oranges so as to relive her from long days of fasting and prayers.
She slept and unfortunately died in the process, her children tried to contact their mum for three days but all to no avail, fortunately for this woman she locked the main gate likewise the door to the house, this makes it difficult for the neighbors to notice if she is around or not. To the curiosity of her Children they called one of her neighbor to help check on their mother.
For security purpose the so call neighbor called some of other neighbors with her to the woman's house, on getting to the house the gate was locked, they shout the woman's name but no response from any part of the house.
They decided to bolted in through the fence, they knocked the entrance door again severally, this woman could not answer them, then they decided to peep through window, to their surprise this woman lied down on the sofa lifeless and they swiftly contacted her Children that their mother has gave up to the ghost.
This is a pure likely consequences of a solely lifestyle, you look after someone and be looked back because we can not alone live our life if we are to live long on the land of the living. What if she was someone that use to be move around with people, she might get some help and avert that horrible death.
This is all about SOLELY LIFE.
But after a fruitful years on earth and the sole bearer leaves this world, the children will now start reaping the fruit of their parents labour. The respect, dignity, honour, preservation etc. giving to them when their parent was alive will now be withdrawn and be replaced with several languishes because those honours were achieved through means of uncertainty and forced.
What are the likely consequences?
Likely consequences are not too strange as many of them has been explained above. One adage says that What you sow you shall reap. This makes me remember a woman who lived a christian life and unfortunately she was so cruel to her children and relatives alike.
She lived alone a big mansion, she is always indoor whenever she have nowhere to go. On this faithful day she came back from one of her church program, the program includes fasting and prayer so she performed that and when she got home, she decided to rest a bit before taking oranges so as to relive her from long days of fasting and prayers.
She slept and unfortunately died in the process, her children tried to contact their mum for three days but all to no avail, fortunately for this woman she locked the main gate likewise the door to the house, this makes it difficult for the neighbors to notice if she is around or not. To the curiosity of her Children they called one of her neighbor to help check on their mother.
For security purpose the so call neighbor called some of other neighbors with her to the woman's house, on getting to the house the gate was locked, they shout the woman's name but no response from any part of the house.
They decided to bolted in through the fence, they knocked the entrance door again severally, this woman could not answer them, then they decided to peep through window, to their surprise this woman lied down on the sofa lifeless and they swiftly contacted her Children that their mother has gave up to the ghost.
This is a pure likely consequences of a solely lifestyle, you look after someone and be looked back because we can not alone live our life if we are to live long on the land of the living. What if she was someone that use to be move around with people, she might get some help and avert that horrible death.
This is all about SOLELY LIFE.
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